Doomspending: Why We Do It — And What It Means for Our Future
Doomspending isn’t new.
It’s always been there in some form. When money feels tight and the numbers at the pump or the checkout start to look more like phone numbers than prices, we tend to look for relief.
For some, it’s food we know we shouldn’t indulge in. For others, it’s a bottle of something expensive we won’t fully appreciate, or clothing from brands that sound more like desserts than labels. And then there are the shoes — often in quantities that would suggest more feet than the average octopus.
A modern twist on an old habit
Lately, it seems things have intensified.
We spend more time than ever quietly scrolling through bad news — invasions, conflict, instability, political chaos. It’s constant, and hard to ignore. Against that backdrop, a behaviour has picked up a name: doomspending.
Doomspending is essentially spending without regard for consequences. It’s choosing to indulge now while quietly dismissing the longer-term impact.
Modern spending tools make it easy. Credit cards, online shopping, and digital wallets create just enough distance between us and our bank balance that we don’t always feel the effect immediately.
Why it’s becoming more common
Some commentators suggest doomspending reflects the reality facing younger generations.
While clothing, electronics, and homewares have become relatively more affordable, the cost of housing has surged. The bigger goals feel further away, sometimes unattainable.
So the mindset shifts — if the future feels uncertain or out of reach, enjoying the present becomes easier to justify.
Where Aesop encouraged us to prepare today for tomorrow, the modern outlook can drift closer to Erma Bombeck’s observation: think of all those who skipped dessert on the Titanic — and for what?
The judgement — and the hypocrisy
Doomspending often attracts criticism.
There’s a belief that financial discipline is a reflection of character. That spending impulsively is wasteful or lacking control.
But there’s also a quiet hypocrisy in that thinking.
We’re quick to notice other people’s indulgences while reframing our own as deserved rewards — something earned after working hard. The line between enjoyment and excess is rarely drawn objectively.
The deeper issue
The real problem isn’t the occasional splurge.
It’s the thinking behind it.
If we begin spending because we feel the future doesn’t matter — or isn’t worth preparing for — it becomes self-fulfilling:
If nothing is saved, nothing is there later
If nothing is invested, nothing grows
If everything is consumed today, tomorrow has fewer choices
If money starts to feel abstract while experiences feel “real,” our behaviour naturally follows that belief.
Stepping back from the cycle
Breaking the pattern doesn’t mean becoming restrictive or joyless.
It means gaining perspective.
Much of the “doom” we absorb is outside our control — and often amplified by how much time we spend consuming it. Recognising that creates space to make more deliberate decisions.
Doomspending, in that sense, is a quiet kind of collusion — one that slowly erodes future options.
Money is emotional
Money shapes how and where we live. It gives us options — or takes them away.
Because of that, it’s often emotional. And when something is emotional, we tend to avoid it. Budgets go unchecked. Long-term plans get postponed.
Immediate spending feels easier.
But avoiding the conversation doesn’t improve the outcome.
A more rewarding approach
Enjoying your money is important.
But so is using it with intention.
Some of the most meaningful rewards come not from immediate gratification, but from what’s built over time. Money that is invested rather than spent doesn’t disappear — it grows.
Not evenly, and not without setbacks. But steadily.
And over time, it creates something far more valuable than any individual purchase: choice.
Because most purchases fade:
The meal is eaten
The wine is gone
The clothes wear out
The trend passes
But what you build financially stays with you — and shapes your future.
Final thought
Doomspending is understandable. It’s human.
But left unchecked, it narrows your future.
The goal isn’t to deny today — it’s to balance it with tomorrow. To make decisions consciously, rather than reactively.
Talk to Us
If doomspending feels familiar, it’s worth pausing for a moment.
Not to judge it — just to understand it.
Because the real cost isn’t the meal, the bottle, or the purchase. It’s the slow erosion of future choices.
We work with people to bring a bit of clarity back to their financial decisions — to balance today’s enjoyment with tomorrow’s possibilities.
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Guest Contributor: Peter Rowlands
Article prepared for Provincial Wealth
Dated: 10 June 2026